My Current craving

Helpppp!!!!

So here is what I seriously crave for at the moment.....

Really dont know why, but I long for ..This shoe ....

 

 I hope my thirst would be watered soon...

The Advisory Place

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The Advisory Place............ ideas on the move.
 

What Matters in marriage!!!

Hi guys. Hope you all are having a fabulous week. Its Mid week and already past mid month!

Well, time flies doesn't it???.

Lately, I have been reading a whole lot on marriage as I know we can never know it all so I am always open to learn. I came across a post and noted some points I will be sharing shortly. Marriage isn't just a one day affair. The actual marriage in itself is immediately the marriage ceremony is over and everyone returns to their various destination. It has nothing to do with how big or small the wedding ceremony was, how much was involved, or how many celebrities,politicians and big shots were in attendance. Its  actually a bigger picture than we ever imagine. So much time is given to the planning stage for the big day than the big life after the day.

 

For you to have a good marriage, you need a whole lot of stuff:

God: From day one, I have tried to base my relationship on God. Even when I was just friends with my significant other, He also has the fear of God, and that made it easier for us to reason on the same grounds. We see God as the only third party allowed to comment, change and direct us. I tell you, we have tried Him severally and even spoken to Him, like He was physically right beside us. Guess what, He showed Himself present in our midst. The only solid foundation is God. And like I always tell my friends, A woman is the strength of the marriage. A woman who loves and knows God will never get it wrong, You may fall severally but You will always rise up.

Maturity: Like they say, age is just a number. I have met several people who act way more mature than they look and vice versa. Age could be a factor but maturity of the mind is of paramount importance. With maturity, you can handle a whole lot of challenges and settle problems with ease.
Patience: I remember early last year when I figured out my relationship was always having issues more often than not (of which I always began the fight, lol ), I took out time to figure what the issue was and somehow I realized that I lacked patience big time. It actually topped the list of my prayer points January 1st 2013(not a joking matter). I have told anyone who cared to listen to always advice me on that subject, and I can say putting all words together, I can clearly see the power of Patience in my life & relationship. I need more and more dosage of it as I can never have enough. Someone once said  ''when I was getting married, one of the things I was told was, go to the market, there is a material called PATIENCE, buy it, sew and wear if you must succeed in marriage. I tell you it was good advice; everyone needs it no matter who you are dealing with''

Financial stability: Money can never be over emphasized in a relationship. It doesn't mean millions must be involved, just have enough to take care of the basic needs of life and enough for the raining day. I would prefer mentioning that you should be educated, have a steady source(s) of income, rather than preach about having millions of money.

Love:  My Cousin always told me when I was young that Love is a Virus, and it will someday catch up with me.lol. It can make you do things you never imagined you will do. Dont be surprised that severally people walk the isle with no love existing in their hearts. Needless to say, people marry for several reasons. However, I only believe in the reason for Love, for it is this love that makes me imagine a future and a life with my partner. Along the line, some fall in love and others who tried severally without succeeding end up pulling out from the marriage.  Some also who married for love fall out of love during the marriage. Well people say True love never dies......I'm not sure if I believe that or not.All I would say is you should be able to figure out why you love that person. Is it a physical attraction, attitude, way of life, looks?....whatever the reason is have it in mind that You are in the business till death do you part......

Good health: Please ensure you confirm the compatibility of you and your partner before proceeding into anything serious. AT times love can be deadly o, people just get carried away and assume all is well. When the basics are done, all other issues can be handled amicably if any comes up. If there is any ailment you are aware existing in your partner, you must be ready to live with it and stand by your partner in trying moments. Remember its 'in sickness and in health'. We all pray for good health, but nothing stops you from doing the general check ups.

There are several other things you need to know, do or learn before marriage; find them, do them and ENJOY!!!

If there are more points , Please comment below as I would be happy to know..

xoxo

simplyfej

How to get married; "Naija" style (by Toke Makinwa)

Hi guys,

Hope you all are having a fabulous September? Well for me, It started off beautifully well and I expect a fabulous ending. It's also the beginning of the 'ember' months. Worry not, we are over comers and nothing shall befall us.

So back to the matter, I stumbled on this video today and I couldn't help but wonder. Like seriously!!! Perhaps the hustle for obtaining, acquiring, getting (or whichever term you decide to use) a Husband is getting really serious by the minute. Gals are not smiling at all.....hehehe. 

Anyways if you are one of the desperadoes, here is some advice from someone I believe you already know..

There is something wrong with this advice...or is it just me?? And for those over 30, worry not, at the appointed time, your status shall change..

Wat do you think about the video??

Just a piece

Hello Guys!hope you all had a fab weekend... It was a very emotional one for me (yea had to make some critical decisions), but I learnt a lot afterwards. below is a little piece from me to you.....
 
Great people are ordinary people with extra ordinary amount of determination. Greatness can be reached through extra ordinary will and determination to reach the top. You cant sit down fold your arms doing nothing and expect things to change. There has to be an action involved. That biting troubling problem you are facing should not stop you. Yes, I know it may be a very big one, but complaining will only keep you in one spot, lamenting your fate will only bring you nearer to your grave. 

Every being has one thing in common which money cannot buy.. It's 24hours in a day. How each of us use that time is the determining factor of who we are going to be in the nearest future. I always say, I am not lucky I am blessed. Stop complaining, stop the envy, stop the backbiting, Stop wishing You were the next person by your side.Their troubles may just be more than you could never imagine


It will shock you to know that you can be who you want to be,especially if God says so. Thus you need not want to be like the next person. How you may ask? The only reason why we feel incomplete is because we do not know who we already are (A Royal Priesthood). Once we realize who we are, our worth especially in Christ, the urge to be like the person by your side fades away.

Stop the  procrastination, It Kills. Make that move now, start that school now, apply for that Job now, Take that exam now, Make that decision about your family now. Do it now as NO MAN knows the next minute.

Life is beautiful, you got to know how to live it......

Stay blessed  and show someone love today.

 

African Sunday

Hello guys!!!

     Sunday was an ''African Sunday'' and I thought. how would I pull this up without the Gele cause I   was so not in the mood for that. I also didn’t want any headaches as I was ready to get my praise on.What was missing???? Oufit of the day... 

   

Thankfully, I remembered I had this aso-oke (Yoruba fabric) somewhere in my wardrobe. I 've had it for over 5years now. I also had dis oleku blouse. I started putting one plus one and what thrilled me most was how I put everything togedr and rock my hair without putting up a Gele.

I sure like the way I rocked it without the Gele, makes it kinda tush traditional attire.hehehehehehehe..just psychin maself

If there was to be a prize, I bet I would win it *in ma mind* 

Hehehehehe............

Love.....

simplyfej

My Natural hair love!!!

Hi peeps!

So today I tot to share my new found source of joy. Its amazing how you I feel with your my natural hair on. In the past few years I can bet I never appreciated my hair as much as I do now. 
There is this feeling of royalty, elegance and beauty from within  when I flaunt my natural hair. Oh and trust me, everyone wants to have a feel of what its like.

My fro

This picture above was taken about 3 months ago. My fro gives me life and oh God bless the day I decided to go natural. I used to be part of those who said natural hair is not meant for anyone leaving in Nigeria. I always felt naija weather was way to harsh on the hair, and it was more like some deeper life look *chuckles*. Now I know I was so so wrong. My natural hair gives my life, it's my new found love...

trying out a bun

I'm so willing to learn, anything for my hair to be healthy and fly!!! Was also very happy when I was approached by the  Georgous Acharacha. Thanks babes *mwuaah* She told me about her blog, about Natural Nigerian and some other useful information about the natural family around my community I never knew existed. I was extremely excited to hear that but pained when she mentioned the last meet up held the weekend before . Looking forward to the next...

 

Power of shrinkage

Anyways I'll stop here  with my ranting while I continue feeding my eyes and brain on more info about the hair..lol


You all enjoy the rest of your day...chaos
#teamnatural

Fejilicious

Intro!!!/HbdTovolistic

hey guys!!!!!!

I'm extremely excited about this post....Finally a means to let out all that runs thru ma mind.

 Its such a beautiful thursday morning.  How was your night?trust it was fab..anyways I'm on here to share personal experience, tots, views/opinions as well as learn from u'll as we r all experiencing different stages in life. 

Today happens to be one of my besties birthday...So I'm gonna open this blog with a shout out to ma sis from anodr mother,my bunky,my aproko partner............Tovo!!!!!!! *applauds*...hehehehehehe

 

Her Wedding day....2011

She is a friend one would ever wish for, with brains and beauty blessed beyond measures....dr is never a dull moment with her

Happy birthday sweetheart, wish u many more happy,furitful sexy, fufilled years ahead...
May u soar higher than you can ever think or imagine..and may ur children bring u more joy and peace dan u cud ever know....

Everyone have a Super dupa awesome day and stay blessed.......

Love
Fej.